I had a great time at
my 60th birthday bash last Sunday!
I had about 50 guests, including
woofiegrrl,
vdentata,
eudyptes,
goingdriftless,
momomom,
phoenix_glow, and
tleeves, who I got to meet in person for the first time!
I was delighted to have friends there from many aspects of my life -- family, friends from church, from my bird club, from LJ, miscellaneous friends, and
I know I'm forgetting at least one other category my co-mod from freecycle. It felt really good to pull all the parts of my life together that way. And everyone was very friendly -- even the people who didn't know anyone else were absorbed in conversations every time I looked around. No one was sitting alone.
The weather was blissful. If I could have ordered weather for an outdoor party, I would have ordered exactly what I got: bright sun, temperature in the upper 70's, and a very slight warm breeze out of the south. It was a perfect day to be in the park!
I had asked Meredith and A to bring the cake. Specifically, I had told them, "Actually what I would love is if you would get a birthday cake! Just a regular sheet cake from Giant or Costco or wherever is fine." But instead they brought
two cakes -- an enormous chocolate one with chocolate icing (at least two feet long), and a slightly smaller vanilla one with white icing.

And they were definitely not "regular sheet cakes"! A wouldn't say where she got these cakes, but they were obviously from an excellent bakery. The cake was delicious, with a filling of fresh strawberries, and yummy buttercream icing. Usually people just take a small square to celebrate, since ordinary sheet cakes don't taste like much. But these were so good that everyone kept coming back for more! Nearly the entire huge chocolate cake was gone, and most of the vanilla one.
What made the party especially wonderful for me was the help of four special people: My daughters, Meredith and A, and two friends, Ann and Wendy. They did all the work so that I could enjoy my own party -- from posting balloons at critical turns and setting up the pavilion to cleaning up at the end, as well as everything that had to be done during the party. I saw A go back and forth several times carrying out filled trash bags and replacing them with new ones, and Meredith got the cake ready for me.

A few of the guests who were still there at the end also pitched in with cleanup, which was really nice. It's a trash-free park, and several people grabbed bags of trash or recyclables to take home, and Ann took whatever was left. My car was full of coolers and leftovers -- mainly drinks and paper goods, which I had drastically overestimated! I have to make a run to Costco and return what wasn't opened, but I have a lot of Pepsi, iced tea, lemonade, napkins, and whatever else was opened. In hindsight I should have just bought the drinks and paper goods at the supermarket -- that way the opened packages would have been smaller and I could have returned more of it. Oh well ... I'll certainly have enough beverages to offer anyone who comes over for the next couple of years!
Although I had made it clear on the invitation that I didn't want gifts, a few people brought them anyway, and I got quite a few cards. Unfortunately the cleanup crew helpfully took all the cards and put them in one of the gift bags, so now I'm not sure who to thank for that present! One of the cards was separate from the others, so I'm hoping that was the one that was originally in the bag. :-)
I had another gift, too -- something non-tangible.
goingdriftless brought her guitar and sang a few of her songs for me! Unfortunately most of the guests had left by then, but some of the ones who were left came over to listen. Frankly I didn't care whether anyone else listened or not --
I loved it!
My actual birthday was two days later, October 23. A couple who had originally said they could come to the party called me on Friday to say something had come up, and asked if they could take me to lunch on my birthday instead, which I gratefully accepted. So on Tuesday the three of us went out for Chinese food. The party was the celebration
for my birthday, but it was really nice to be able to celebrate
on my birthday instead of having it be just another Tuesday.
My three Mylar balloons are still floating above the piano in my living room -- one still with the tape on it where it was stuck to a signpost -- reminding me of the great party I had to kick off my seventh decade of life!
